Mother's Day

Today is a difficult day, yes I have a Mom to celebrate, but what about me? People tell me I am a Mother for what I have been through but then I am not acknowledged. So which is it, am I a Mother or not? Holidays like today break my heart, I love to celebrate my Mom, wish my husband had his Mom here with him (briefly) to celebrate her- he knows what I mean :) But dammit what about me?! Where do I fit in in all of todays festivities- I feel like I am butting in because I really don't have children- what happens for my dear husband scascot next month- does he get celebrated because he is a Father or does he too get overlooked?